When the Starkweathers learned their son, Ethan, had Prader-Willi syndrome at only a few weeks old, it was devastating. A rare genetic chromosomal disorder, Prader-Willi causes low muscle tone, labored speech, trouble breathing, and because of a malfunctioning hypothalamus, a constant feeling of extreme hunger. Amy was given a grim diagnosis: Ethan would fight her for food, he could never be integrated into a classroom and he would be morbidly obese. There was little known about the disease, and there was no cure. After Ethan’s diagnosis, Amy spoke with doctors and intensely conducted her own research. She and Toen vowed they would do everything in their power to make sure Ethan had the best life possible.

With a severe case of Prader-Willi, Ethan has trouble walking and speaking and is always hungry. No matter how much he eats, his brain never gets the message that he is full. He also has a low metabolism, so although he’s hungry all the time, he can’t eat as many calories as a normal 9-year-old boy. His disease is not only uncomfortable; it is life-threatening. Because of his low muscle tone, Ethan stopped breathing one night. His father ran into his room, called 911 and gave him CPR until the ambulance arrived, saving his life.

Over the past eight years, Amy has developed a structured system for her son that has given him the opportunity to manage his illness effectively. Ethan has specific times for meals and snacks each day. To lessen Ethan’s expectations of getting food, the family has to lock up the refrigerator and kitchen cabinets and block off the entrance to the kitchen during the night. Ethan has a breathing machine and monitor in his room. He goes to doctor’s appointments and multiple treatments each week, including physical, speech and horse therapies.

Although Ethan suffers daily, he has a positive attitude, and his smile and laugh are contagious. Because of his parents’ attention, knowledge and love, Ethan maintains a healthy weight, is in a normal fourth-grade class in school and was even on the honor roll this past semester.

  • Great job Starkweathers! What a big step for the whole Prader-Willi Syndrome community. We watched up in Canada (www.fpwr.ca)
  • Jennifer
    My 4yr old brother is also a Prader Willi child and at this time is taking growth hormones 6days a week. We understand how hard it is to maintain your living situation when you have to keep everything under lock and key. Dakota is actually the youngest of us 8 and the 4 older than him suffer with autism. Our family has had to overcome many obstacles and it is a comfort to know that there are people out there that understand; and I am so glad that this family was blessed to have their home assisted to, because they deserve it. Let us not give up a hope for a cure:)
  • justin hope
    I am blessed to have helped for 26hrs straight ur blessed Starkweather family
  • Louise
    We have a 31 year old daughter with PWS. She now lives in a group home and her weight is totally under control. She went from a life threatening 234 lbs. down to 115 lbs. which she has maintained for quite a few years now. We thank God every day for the wonderful people at PWH of Oconomowoc for all they do. I am looking forward to seeing the show tonight. Sounds exciting, I'm sure the family will love it.
  • dshabram
    Congrats Starkweater Family!!! Our son was diagnosed with Prader Willi Syndrome at 8 weeks of life and he gets growth hormone injections every day, we were kind of told the same things that he would be obese and all the bad stuff, but he is doing quite well because of the growth hormones our continued dedication to his health. We are so excited to watch this episode on Sunday. We too are just starting to build our home and are hoping to get some great ideas. Even though we don't know who you are or your family we are so happy that you have received this wonderful gift. You all look very happy!!! May God bless you all!!!
  • Danielle
    I work with adults that have Prader-Willi syndrome and live in group homes. I've been working with them for over three years and they amaze me every single day at the things they can accomplish. They should never be underestimated. I am so glad the Starkweathers have gotten this opportunity :)
  • nancyandbobbyh
    Our praises goes out to the all volunteers who devoted their time, money and most of all their hearts to this family. Our son Gregg (13) also has Prader-Willi Syndrome and we know what they are experiencing on a daily basis. It's heartbreaking to know that these children (and adults) are hungry and obsessed with food each and every day and how much it affects their lives physically and even more importantly emotionally. Our son's weight is under control, but the social impact affects the life of our family tremendously. We are looking forward to watching how Extreme Makeover restructured their home to give Ethan and his family a less stressful and more loving environment. Bless all of you for doing God's work for them,
  • Renea
    My family is also a PWS (Prader Willi Syndrome) family. My granddaughter was diagnosed at 11 months of age. One of us gives her a shot 6 days a week of Growth Hormones. This has made such an unbelievable difference in her development. She still has low muscle tone but has been able to walk, talk and even swim and ride her horse (with assistance). She is in a typical Kindergarten class with resource integration for math and reading daily. The poor muscle tone has shown more in her speech than any other part of her life. She does receive extensive speech therapy along with regular PT and OT services. With the outstanding help of the National Prader Willi Syndrome we were able to connect with other families with PWS children. PWS affects 1 in 15,000 to 20,000 children. There is no cure at this time. Please help us find a cure for this terrible disorder than makes our children hungry all the time.
  • mechelle
    hello my name is mechelle from surrey england and our daughter isabel of 3 years also has prada willi syndrome, we wish you and your family all the best with you
    house renovation project. warm regards.
  • Jenny
    Great to see another Prader-Willi family getting a break! Our daughter with Prader-Willi is 17 and anyone who has "been there" knows how challenging it can be. I pray the show paints an accurate portrait of life with PWS. Congratulations Starkweather Family!
  • vickieadizas
    this is my friend amy. I did not know that she was the one receiving the house as I have been too busy too keep up with the news. I cried when i saw the video and found out that she was a receipient. Amy deseves this. She goes thru a lot and is worthy of this new house. I am so glad that she got it!! Her family needed this house so much!! THANK YOU EXTREME MAKEOVER AND COMMUNITY SPONSORS!
  • normanobesheer
    Hi Toen! So sorry about your son! We will be praying for him and of course will be viewing the TV episode in March! Norm Besheer
  • Mollie
    We are friends with a family who has a daughter with Prader Wili. She is slightly older than Ethan and is an absolute joy. I'm not sure if she had the opportunity to be involved with the makeover, but if Ethan is anything like her, he is one sweet young man...God bless you all as you walk this road with Ethan.
  • Gretchen Hannefield
    On behalf of the Prader-Willi Syndrome Assoc. of Oklahoma, we wish you our best. Some of your "Tulsa PWS family" will be on hand this afternoon to help you "move that bus." Let's continue to advocate for our wonderful PWS kids. We hope you get a food pantry with just one lock to deal with and that they don't forget to give you the "food key" besides the front door key!
  • wilmapike
    You are doing a wonderful job with Ethan, Way to Go Ethan, making the honor roll at school.
    Hope you and your family enjoy your new home, as much as I enjoyed volunteering to help with it. May God Bless you and your family.
  • Teal
    I just wanted to let the family know that my babysitter when I was younger had a daughter who had this. This is a hard illness to deal with but if they ever wanted to talk to them , Im sure they would be willing. Unfortunatly their daughter passes on .. I think she was maybe in her mid 20s, but they have been threw it and probably could offer kind words of hope.
  • Meg Comeau
    This is SO exciting - we have a 22 year old daughter with Prader Willi syndrome and are in the process of building a new home ourselves. Can't wait for this episode to air and see what the wonderfully creative Extreme Makeover Home Edition team have come up with to help with environmental management of the syndrome. Hoping we can use some of their ideas! Congratulations to the Starkweather family; both on their new home and on bringing greater awareness of this challenging diagnosis.
  • alovingmother
    Have you ever heard of, or tried, Isagenix for him? The mega nutrition, the bio-available minerals, and the digestive enzymes can't hurt. Check it out at www.duffysrus.com
  • Carmi Russell
    Praise God for committed parents.
    He looks healthy and happy. They all do.
    I'm glad that they are getting their home fixed so Ethan can have the proper boundaries and structure set up to lead a fairly healthy and long life.
    God's best blessings,
  • Ashley Daman
    The Daman family is so excited to have been apart of this build and to have seen what great things people of Tulsa can do in such a short period of time.
  • I wish the Starkweathers family all the luck in the world!!

    Best regards,
    Frieke
    Belgium
  • sperles
    Teryl sperle is an ot at tulsa sunshine center if maryann watson wants to call her so their kids can meet
  • Tulsan
    wow !!!! Thank God for families that don't listen to the Dr !!!!!
  • Loving Nurse in Tulsa,Ok
    oops !!!! GROW ....lol
  • Loving Nurse in Tulsa,Ok
    Just wanted to be sure and thank this family for NOT listening to the Dr's.....You too know the joy that fills your heart because you have and do continue to help your child gorw in life ...God bless you ALL.The Loving Nurse ,in Tulsa,Ok
  • a loving nurse in Tulsa,Ok
    I am a special needs nurse in Tulsa,Ok and it is heartbreaking to know how many children suffer because their parents have"listened to their Dr's"- EVERY child is a blessing from God ! EACH child has a purpose in this world.I have been blessed to enrich these special children.We ALL need love and understanding.To be able to enrich a childs life becase of something I have brought to his/her life is the BEST feeling in the world! There aren't words for the joy that over comes me when I know I 've given a child a chance to be more than his/her illness.When you look into the eyes of these children it's as if you are looking into their hearts..I will ALWAYS be here for "my children"as long as I'm able.God bless you Extreme Make Over !!!! A Loving Nurse .in Tulsa,Ok
  • k9saver
    No one has mentioned that they also have fostered homeless dogs saving many lives
    I do not have words to say how happy I am for them!
  • Mary
    I don't know the Starkweathers, but am so very excited for them! I was fortunate to do some volunteering yesterday and was touched to see so many people ready to give of their time and energy for the benefit of someone else. Bless you Tulsa
  • The McDougall's
    Congratulations Starkweathers Family! What a blessing!

  • Joni Brown
    I had the EXTREME privilege of helping to pack some of the"Family Treasures" along with my daughter and her boss.We were very humbled to touch this family in some small way with our hands and hearts...it was astonishing...but not surprising..to see so many there...just happy to give...all ages...all walks of life...bonded by this sweet ,deserving family....We are the ones blessed by this experience and the Kodak moments will be relived for lifetimes.Thank you...and God keep you all in His love... : )
  • msmeredithfarmer
    As a long time Tulsan (54yrs.), I am proud to see how well fellow Tulsans have welcomed Extreme Makeover Home Edition. I want to tell Ty and the design team that my family watches the show religously and love what they do for others. I would like to work the 6pm to 1am shift on Monday or Tuesday if needed. Love to the Starkweathers.
  • Donna Frailey
    Positive attitudes and smiles are contagious...thanks Ethan.
  • sperles
    We know how hard it is - our son Peter also has Prader-willi and is also 9 - Pete wants to meet Ethan since hearing that he has a "diet" too and has shots every night and gets to see Dr. Jelly - one of our favorite people - we'll have to make it happen!
  • Mary Anne Watson
    do you live here in Tulsa? I have a 10 year old girl with PW also. She would like to meet some other child that has this.
  • sperles
    yes we do - pete is 9 and goes to mayo - maybe you and I could have coffee and figure out how to get them to meet - Teryl 630-2168




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  • The Durland family
    Congratulations to the Starkweather family. God bless you and your new, well deserved home. Enjoy!
  • donnabruce
    YES! GOD BLESS THE STARKWEATHER FAMILY!!! I would like to meet you! My Mothers Grandparents name was "Starkweather'" also! He was a doctor and invented the first forcepts! We might be related!! I am voluteering to help build your new home! My shift is tomorrow morning @ 6:00am! I can't wait!!! Love to all!
  • JULIE
    I HAVE A GIRL SCOUT TROOP AND WE WOULD LIKE TO BRING THE WORKERS HOT COCO IS THERE A WAY WE CAN DO THIS? PLEASED GET BACK TO ME ASAP.. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP.
  • Judy
    I cannot wait to see how they transform the house so it's safer for Ethan. I hope I can use some of their ideas and incorporate it into our home for my son Tyler!
  • Tina Kucera
    I'm looking forward in helping anyway I can. My volunteer day is now on 12-7am on Tuesday. I'm so grateful to help this Tulsa Family. I will do my BEST!
  • tjwest
    i think that it so cool how extreme makeover home edition does this 4 people thank u and god bless
  • Cyndee Sanders
    Type your comment here.I can't stop crying - I am so happy for them.
  • Kristin Taylor
    I think this is a wonderful thing. Amy, Toen, and the kids deserve this very much. They have always been a great family and Ethan is a hoot to talk to. Im very happy for my cousins. Have fuun guys!
  • Jessi and Tommy
    We could not be happier for you! We are truly blessed to have you in our lives.
  • christyleigh
    Can someone please share the address for the worksite?
  • christyleigh
    Can you share the address of the worksite?
  • Yorks
    Congrats to the wonderful Starkweather family!!! Can't think of a more deserving family!! Thank you Simmons Home and Extreme Makeover you made a dream come true!!
    The York's
  • L. Bull
    I'm so happy for the Starkweathers!!!!!!!! I know everyone at First Pres. loves them and I wish I was in the country to be a part of this!
  • britt09
    when does this one come on
  • catt maczko
    These guys DESERVE this!!!! :) WOW!!!!! Thanks SOOOOO much Extreme Makeover!!!!!! This is absolutely INCREDIBLE!!!! Hurray Ethan!!!!!!!Whooo Hoooo!!!!!!! :)
  • Patsy
    Congratulations! Can anyone let me know when this will be shown in the UK?
  • sarafreeland
    We are thrilled that this home is being built for the Starkweather family. Thank you Extreme Home Makeover and Simmons Homes! the Freeland family
  • bobford
    Congratulations! You seem a well deserving family. I am very happy for you.
  • Kim Arnold
    Congrats Starkweather family!!! You are very deserving!!! Enjoy your new home!!
  • Tracy
    Congratulations, Starkweathers!!! God Bless You!
  • cameronsgrandma
    Good for you!! My Grandaughter has PWS as well. I wish you and your family the very best.
  • tymnalee
    Way to Go Starkweathers. Finally, some national recognition for PRADER-WILLI SYNDROME.
  • juliebrugger
    I live in a lovely home built by Simmons so I am honored to be able to give back. Thank you Simmons homes
  • Tamara Herd
    Congratulations Starkweather family! You couldn't be in better hands than with the good people at Simmons Homes, and I know this will be a wonderful blessing to your family.
  • judybryant
    Can someone please share the address of the job site?
  • jennifer and Brian
    We are volunteering and couldn't be happier to do it. We don't know know you, Starkweathers, but we are very happy for you!
  • kristinagrismore
    i cant wait to get started on your house. may god bless you all and god bless this build!!
  • Racquel Weaver
    Congrats Starkweather Family!

    Racquel- Tulsa
  • Elaine Johnson
    First Presbyterian Church in Tulsa loves the Starkweathers and couldn't be happier they were chosen!
  • Sam Tenney
    Toen, Amy and the boys, I cannot think of a more deserving family!!!! Congratulations!!!!!
  • Gwendolyn
    Congratulations Starkweathers!!! The best is yet to come and may God continue to richly bless your family!
  • Lynn Brausen
    I am very happy for the Starkweather family. Blessings to the family :]
  • Lynn Brausen
    I got the phone call but still cannot figure out on my e-mail if I am to attend.
  • Jamie
    I've been told that we are back on with the original volunteer schedule !!
  • Jessica Earle
    Congratulations to the Starkweathers!! I can't wait to see this Extreme Makeover!!
  • Carla
    A very deserving family! Thank you Simmons and Extreme Home.
  • maryarmstrong
    We know Ethan and his family and we couldn't be happier for them!! We LOVE you Ethan!!!


    Teresa, Mary and Lorena!!!!
  • Melanie
    Congratulations to the Starkweathers! Bod bless you :)
  • Melanie
    ^God bless you...
  • JD McJunkin
    Congrats
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